You may very well be a little awkward when it comes to initiating first contact with Russian women online, but by following just a few simple tips you won’t need to be. In fact, by following a few simple tips you can get through that first contact and look forward to many more conversations that could lead to finding the woman you really want.
You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don’t let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.
You’re just talking to her. Sure, there is an underlying motivation for both of you. You want to find a woman and she wants to find someone just like you. But once you remove the pressure of these intentions, you can relax and enjoy the contact a lot more. It’s like a little adventure that you’re having through your computer.
Remember that all you’re doing is talking. There doesn’t have to be any expectation beyond that. By removing expectation and having just a normal getting to know you conversation you and she will be able to relax and have a much easier time talking to each other. Remember that long pauses while you are online are generally a sign that you’re not paying attention or that you don’t like the conversation. Be courteous and respond appropriately.
Asking her a lot of questions that prod answers that reveal something about herself is a fun way to go about it. If you can get her to chat about herself, her thoughts and feelings, and her viewpoints you have the golden opportunity to come across like someone who is genuinely interested in her feelings just as you have the opportunity to learn all about who she really is.
Developing these relationships take some time. You can’t just jump into a ready made relationship online. This is a common mistake that many men make when they have their first contact with Russian women online. Many men expect that she will be ready and willing to start a serious relationship with you. Yes, it happens instantaneously for some, but most men and women need some time to develop a relationship that they are comfortable with.
Don’t hang out online and try to milk the conversation into more. Let it draw to a natural and comfortable close for both of you. Pushing the conversation past its natural limits isn’t going to help you or your potential mate much. If she is pining to get offline and you are trying to push her into more conversation that just leaves dead space to fill, you are both going to feel awkward. Know when to say goodbye.
Ask her about how she feels. Remember that she has a lot of different emotions, thoughts, and belief systems that would benefit you to know. The more you are interested in talking to her about her opinions and how she views the world, the more you end up getting to know her. Over the period of just a couple of weeks, you can end up knowing someone very well if you ask enough questions and you listen carefully to the response.
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